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What does Elvanse feel like?

An account of what it feels like to take Elvanse for ADHD.

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I think I have ADHD!

How do you get an ADHD diagnosis in the UK?

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ADHD in Adulthood

Discover how ADHD affects adults differently to kids.

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I don’t know what my relationship needs are

If ADHD and insecure attachment have left you wondering what you actually need in relationships, you’re not alone—or broken. This post helps you untangle emotional confusion, recognise hidden needs, and start naming them with clarity and self-compassion. Because knowing your needs isn’t selfish—it’s the first step toward healthy connection.

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The ADHD Christmas Gift Guide 2024

A guide on how to nail Christmas presents for people with ADHD.

A man with ADHD looking wistfully into the distance.

What does Elvanse feel like?

An account of what it feels like to take Elvanse for ADHD.

A wondering what to do if he had ADHD

I think I have ADHD!

How do you get an ADHD diagnosis in the UK?

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Unlocking Potential: How ADHD Coaching Can Transform Your Life

How coaching can help you manage your ADHD traits.

An image depicting the ADHD brain.

ADHD in Adulthood

Discover how ADHD affects adults differently to kids.

Who is James Delin?

James Delin creates content about ADHD, mental health and relationships to help you feel better.

James helps people like you build a healthier relationship with themselves, so they can confidently handle whatever life throws at them without feeling reliant on anyone else.

After a successful career in the creative sector, James pursued a passion for helping people. He creates content to support, validate and enhance your experience, all while he trains as a therapist.

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Relationships

Attachment Styles 101

Attachment styles shape how we connect, cling, or cut off in relationships—often without us realising it. Whether you’re chasing or ghosting, there’s a path to healing—and it starts with awareness, boundaries, and learning to feel safe in connection.

Relationships

How to Break the Insecure Attachment Cycle

Finding your path to secure, nurturing relationships

Mental Health

Journaling Ideas for Better Mental Health

Try these journaling concepts to improve your mood.

Relationships

ADHD + Insecure Attachment: A Relationship Survival Guide

Relationships with ADHD and insecure attachment can feel like emotional whiplash. This guide unpacks why, what you truly need (hint: not “less neediness”), and how to navigate love without losing yourself. Messy, validating, and real—it’s for anyone who’s ever felt too much and not enough at the same time.

Mental Health

Is it Them…or is it Me?

Ever walk away from a conversation feeling guilty for having needs? This post explores why—tracing it back to internalised shame, dismissive partners, or both. If you’ve been taught your needs are “too much,” this is your reminder: they’re not. You’re allowed to ask. And to be met with care.

Mental Health

Reframing: The Cognitive Power of Perspective

Learn how reframing negative thoughts can ease anxiety, mend breakups, and promote growth. Discover powerful self-help methods to transform your mindset.

Mental Health

Self-Awareness, Boundaries, and Gratitude

Discover the three essential components of positive mental health: healthy sense of self, strong boundaries, and authentic gratitude. Learn practical ways to develop these building blocks for lasting well-being.

Relationships

8 Things I Got Wrong About Secure Attachment

Think secure attachment means perfection, constant availability, and no emotional baggage? Think again. Here are 8 myths I had to unlearn.

Relationships

ADHD in Relationships: Part 1 - Romantic Relationships

Explore the highs, lows, chaos, and calm of ADHD in romantic relationships. Discover practical tips to foster empathy, balance, and deeper connections.

Relationships

How to Reconnect After an Argument

Hard conversations trigger stress responses in the body—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn—regardless of how well they go. Emotional after-care is essential to help your nervous system recalibrate, release stored tension, and reconnect with yourself (and eventually, your partner).

Relationships

Fearful-Avoidant Breakups: What I Learned When She Left

From the allure of “doing the work” to the crash of unmet needs, this post explores the emotional fallout, the clarity that followed, and the slow but steady return to self-worth, boundaries, and love that stays.

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