Relationships

Learn how to improve your relationships with others and yourself through developing awareness, understanding attachment and cultivating healthy boundaries.

Learn how to improve your relationships with others and yourself through developing awareness, understanding attachment and cultivating healthy boundaries.

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Is it Them…or is it Me?

Ever walk away from a conversation feeling guilty for having needs? This post explores why—tracing it back to internalised shame, dismissive partners, or both. If you’ve been taught your needs are “too much,” this is your reminder: they’re not. You’re allowed to ask. And to be met with care.

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Attachment Styles 101

Attachment styles shape how we connect, cling, or cut off in relationships—often without us realising it. Whether you’re chasing or ghosting, there’s a path to healing—and it starts with awareness, boundaries, and learning to feel safe in connection.

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How to Reconnect After an Argument

Hard conversations trigger stress responses in the body—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn—regardless of how well they go. Emotional after-care is essential to help your nervous system recalibrate, release stored tension, and reconnect with yourself (and eventually, your partner).

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A woman contemplating if she can do anything to grow.

Is it Them…or is it Me?

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I don’t know what my relationship needs are

How to make a relationship work with ADHD and insecure attachment.

ADHD + Insecure Attachment: A Relationship Survival Guide

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Attachment Styles 101

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Fearful-Avoidant Breakups: What I Learned When She Left

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How to Reconnect After an Argument

Secure attachment isn't what you think it is.

8 Things I Got Wrong About Secure Attachment

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Self-Awareness, Boundaries, and Gratitude

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How to Break the Insecure Attachment Cycle

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ADHD in Relationships: Part 1 - Romantic Relationships

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ADHD in Adulthood

Discover how ADHD affects adults differently to kids.

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